The word “elopement” has come a long way from its traditional definition of secret getaways and quick ceremonies. Today, elopements are a growing trend for couples seeking intimate, meaningful, and stress-free celebrations of their love. If you’re considering an elopement, here’s everything you need to know to plan a day that reflects your unique relationship.
What Is an Elopement?
An elopement is a wedding celebration that focuses on intimacy, simplicity, and authenticity. While it’s often just the couple an officiant and a witness or two, modern elopements can include a few more close friends or family members (usually no more than 20). Unlike larger weddings, elopements prioritize the couple’s connection and allow for greater flexibility in location, budget, and style without the energy or expense of a reception (add in a reception and it is no longer an elopement, but a micro-wedding).
Why Choose an Elopement?
- Focus on Your Love: Elopements eliminate distractions, allowing you to fully immerse yourself in your partner and the moment.
- Budget-Friendly: With fewer guests and simpler logistics, elopements are often more cost-effective.
- Flexibility: Say “I do” in a breathtaking location, whether it’s a flower field, a mountaintop, or our picturesque venue at Willow and Stone.
- Reduced Stress: Without the pressure of planning a large event, you can truly enjoy your wedding day.
How to Plan Your Elopement
1. Choose Your Dream Location
The beauty of an elopement is the freedom to marry anywhere. Consider a serene natural setting like the rolling hills and flower fields at Willow and Stone Events. Our venue offers the perfect backdrop for intimate vows and stunning photography.
2. Decide Who (few) to Invite
While some couples elope alone (check your state’s legal requirements for witnesses), others invite a select group of loved ones. Decide what feels right for you.
3. Plan the Details
- Officiant: Arrange for someone to perform your ceremony.
- Photography: Hire a professional to capture the magic of your day.
- Florals: Consider adding a few florals. …Not only for the boutonniere and bridal bouquet, but what may be the backdrop for your forever photos.
- Attire: Choose outfits that reflect your style and match the setting.
- Vows: Personalize your vows to make the moment even more meaningful.
4. Consider the Experience
Make your elopement more than just a ceremony. Plan a special activity like a post-ceremony picnic, a romantic dinner, or a weekend stay at The Retreat.
5. Check Legal Requirements
Ensure you meet the legal requirements for marriage in your chosen location. This includes obtaining a marriage license and any necessary event insurance for the venue. Here in North Carolina an officiant and two witnesses are required to be present, and to sign your marriage license.
Why Willow and Stone Events Is Perfect for Your Elopement
At Willow and Stone Events, we specialize in creating unforgettable experiences for couples, with special pricing tailor-made for elopements. Our venue combines soul-stirring natural beauty with elegant touches, offering a romantic and memorable setting for your elopement. Plus, with our flower farm and Airbnb, The Retreat, you can seamlessly extend your celebration into a peaceful getaway.
Plan Your Perfect Elopement with Willow and Stone
Ready to plan your perfect elopement?
- Explore Our Venue: Schedule a tour here.
- Stay at The Retreat: Book your stay here.
- Contact Us: Let us help you create the intimate celebration of your dreams.
Your love story deserves a day as unique as your connection. Let Willow and Stone Events bring your vision to life.